有一對兄弟，他們的家住在80層樓。
有一天他們出去爬山，回家的時候，卻發現大樓停電了！雖然他們揹著一大 包的行李，但看來沒什麼選擇，於是哥哥對弟弟說：「我們爬樓梯上去吧！」
於是，他們就揹著一大包行李開始往上爬。
到了20樓的時候，他們開始累了！ 哥哥告訴弟弟說：「包包太重了，這樣吧！我們把它放在20樓，先爬上去，等電來了再坐電梯下來拿。」，弟弟說：「好！你真聰明！」，於是他們就把包包放在20樓，繼續往上爬。
卸下了沈重的包袱，輕鬆多了！他們一路有說有笑地往上爬。
但好景不常，到了40樓，兩人實在累了，想到只爬了一半，往前看，竟還有40樓要爬，兩人開始互相抱怨，指責對方不注意停電公告，才會落得如此下場。他們邊吵邊爬，就這樣一路到了60樓。> > 到了60樓，也許是累得連吵架的力氣都沒有了，哥哥對弟弟說：「只剩20層樓了，我們就不要吵了，默默地爬著 樓梯 ！」。
於是他們安靜地繼續走，終於，80樓到了！到了家門口，哥哥擺出了一個很帥的姿勢：「弟弟，開門！」，弟弟說 「別鬧了！鑰匙不是在你那兒嗎？」......，
結果，如你所想的，他們把鑰匙放在20樓的包包裡了！......
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有人說，這個故事其實在反映我們的人生。
20歲之前，我們活在家人、老師的期望和期許之下，背負著很多的壓力、包袱在走，自己也不夠成熟有能力，因此步履難免不穩。
20歲之後，離開了眾人的壓力，卸下包袱，開始全力追求自己的夢想，就這樣過了愉快的二十年。
可是到了40歲，發現青春早已過去，不免有許多的遺憾追悔，於是開始遺憾這個、惋惜那個、抱怨公司、抱怨社會、抱怨政府。。。。，就這樣在抱怨遺憾中度過了二十年。
到了60歲，發現人生已所剩不多，於是告訴自己，不要再抱怨了，就珍惜剩下的日子吧！於是默默地走完自己的餘年。
到了生命的盡頭，才想起自己好像有什麼事還沒完成。。。。，原來，我的夢想還留在20歲，沒有完成。你也是如此嗎？> > 想想: 您的夢想是什麼？最在意的是什麼？不要到了40年後才來追悔。
想一想希望將來的自己和現在有何不同，就去做吧！。。。把握現在，記得，今天就是禮物。
Showing posts with label sth to share. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sth to share. Show all posts
Sunday, October 4, 2009
Monday, August 24, 2009
The Accuracy of Death/ Sweet Rain 死亡的精度
i actually came across a pic on a fren's profile & found - Takeshi Kaneshiro :p
fr the title of the movie, it sounds a bit scary to me.. so not paying much attention to it... bt last week, when i went back kl & stroll ard in Kinokuniya KLCC - i then realise wow, it was one of the recommended reading material! hehe as usual, i dun update myself on wht book is nice bla bla bla.. i oni read "best sellers", "recommemded reading" etc.. pick up a copy, sitting down at one of the corner & start reading :)
the storyline kinda catch my attention.. it's nt sth tht i expecting to be horror.. i actually sat there reading for 2 hrs plus.. (missed those days where i always hang about in kinokuniya KLCC or Border Time Square)
bt i hav to head back to jb after tht.. so i googled up dis movie last night :D i highly recommending dis movie to all :)
the plots are kinda twist & turn.. need to do some thinking.. hehe.. at first sight, i tot it was separated into 3 separated story, bt once u reach the ending, u wil realise it's all linked together :D it could be boring & aimless at some point, be patient.. everything comes in a purpose :)
Takeshi Kaneshiro as a grim reaper whom will appear in life the going-to-die person, investigate & to decide whether to pass or not.. he has a black dog, crows & always rainy dy (nv sunny) followed him on his mission.. he learnt tht life & death is not simple after all..
*Argghhh~~~ nt good at describing!!!!!!!!!!! go & hav a look on ur own! :p definitely worth watching!.. hehe*
fr the title of the movie, it sounds a bit scary to me.. so not paying much attention to it... bt last week, when i went back kl & stroll ard in Kinokuniya KLCC - i then realise wow, it was one of the recommended reading material! hehe as usual, i dun update myself on wht book is nice bla bla bla.. i oni read "best sellers", "recommemded reading" etc.. pick up a copy, sitting down at one of the corner & start reading :)
the storyline kinda catch my attention.. it's nt sth tht i expecting to be horror.. i actually sat there reading for 2 hrs plus.. (missed those days where i always hang about in kinokuniya KLCC or Border Time Square)
bt i hav to head back to jb after tht.. so i googled up dis movie last night :D i highly recommending dis movie to all :)
the plots are kinda twist & turn.. need to do some thinking.. hehe.. at first sight, i tot it was separated into 3 separated story, bt once u reach the ending, u wil realise it's all linked together :D it could be boring & aimless at some point, be patient.. everything comes in a purpose :)
Takeshi Kaneshiro as a grim reaper whom will appear in life the going-to-die person, investigate & to decide whether to pass or not.. he has a black dog, crows & always rainy dy (nv sunny) followed him on his mission.. he learnt tht life & death is not simple after all..
*Argghhh~~~ nt good at describing!!!!!!!!!!! go & hav a look on ur own! :p definitely worth watching!.. hehe*
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Give some thought..
There is this email tht i rcv today & would lik to share it here..
Wise sayings and a story:-
Remember, the difference between 'anger' and 'danger' is one alphabet.
Do not overlook this one little alphabet, it may affect our careers, and even human relationship.
There is a Chinese saying, 'Accidents / disasters are from the mouth..'
Experts say:
'People, when dealing with outsiders, always carry or present themselves in a kind and harmonious manner.
But, when facing their own closest family members, it could end up in quarrels and hurting each other, often over small little things'.
You have no qualms about showing your anger to your belovedones and family members.
But would you also show your anger to your superior or your bosses?
Human beings may possess high E.Q while away from home, but at home their E.Q becomes low. This is not exaggeration.
Be more patient and show endurance to your family members! Otherwise you will not be happy as well.
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In the English language, the words 'stressed' and 'desserts' have a very unique relationship. What is that relationship?
By looking carefully, they do not seem to have any connection.
But, when you see more carefully, you will find the word 'stressed' if read reversely, it becomes 'desserts'.
Isn't it wonderful if we could turn our 'Stressed' into 'desserts'?
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In life, at times, there are a lot of 'pressures and failures'
If we could change our mindset and see things from different angles it would result in 'desserts' in our life. Apart from the above, there is another saying,
'Life is just like a bowl of rice, half is sweet while the other half is bitter,You do not know which half you should eat first but still have to finish them all'
Yeah, life is full of sweetness, bitterness, sourness and also spiciness. Still we have to experience it and swim through it.
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There was one primary teacher in a remote village. She came to classroom and asked the little children 'Do you have anyone that you hate the most?'
The little children thought for a while, some remained silent and some nodded their heads. The teacher then gave a bag to each of the children and said:
'Let us play a game.
If you could think of any person who hurt you in the past one week, after class please collect a stone from the riverside, paste a paper with the name of that person on the stone and place the stone in the bag. The bigger the hurt, the bigger should be your stone. If it is a small hurt, then it should be a small stone. I want you all to carry the bag with the stones to the class everyday'.
The students found the game was very interesting They rushed to riverside to search for the stones after class
The next morning, The children carried their bags with the stones to school and were happily chatting away.
This went on the first day, second day and on the third day it was over.
Some were carrying bigger and bigger bags that became a burden
At last, Some children started to complain, 'Teacher, very tiring' and the teacher was laughing without saying a word There was one student shouted loudly,' Yeah, it is very tiring to carry the stones to class everyday'
The teacher finally smiled at the child and said: 'You should let go all the stones that carry other people's mistakes'
The children were surprised
The teacher continued and said: 'Learn to forgive people's mistake,
Do not keep them as treasures in your heart and carry them on the shoulder, over time , none of us will be able to stand the weight of the burden anymore.'
This week, the children had learn a very precious lesson in life The more and bigger stones are in the bag, the more hatred the heart will harbour and the hatred will become deeper and deeper. The burden will become heavier and heavier..
If you had written my name on your stones You should know what to do now!
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proverbs of the day:
'Forgiving people's mistakes is a glory to us' Learn to 'let go', it will free us..
Do not be stingy to share; perhaps there are people who need it.
Love is easy but living and getting together is difficult
Wise sayings and a story:-
Remember, the difference between 'anger' and 'danger' is one alphabet.
Do not overlook this one little alphabet, it may affect our careers, and even human relationship.
There is a Chinese saying, 'Accidents / disasters are from the mouth..'
Experts say:
'People, when dealing with outsiders, always carry or present themselves in a kind and harmonious manner.
But, when facing their own closest family members, it could end up in quarrels and hurting each other, often over small little things'.
You have no qualms about showing your anger to your belovedones and family members.
But would you also show your anger to your superior or your bosses?
Human beings may possess high E.Q while away from home, but at home their E.Q becomes low. This is not exaggeration.
Be more patient and show endurance to your family members! Otherwise you will not be happy as well.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
In the English language, the words 'stressed' and 'desserts' have a very unique relationship. What is that relationship?
By looking carefully, they do not seem to have any connection.
But, when you see more carefully, you will find the word 'stressed' if read reversely, it becomes 'desserts'.
Isn't it wonderful if we could turn our 'Stressed' into 'desserts'?
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
In life, at times, there are a lot of 'pressures and failures'
If we could change our mindset and see things from different angles it would result in 'desserts' in our life. Apart from the above, there is another saying,
'Life is just like a bowl of rice, half is sweet while the other half is bitter,You do not know which half you should eat first but still have to finish them all'
Yeah, life is full of sweetness, bitterness, sourness and also spiciness. Still we have to experience it and swim through it.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
There was one primary teacher in a remote village. She came to classroom and asked the little children 'Do you have anyone that you hate the most?'
The little children thought for a while, some remained silent and some nodded their heads. The teacher then gave a bag to each of the children and said:
'Let us play a game.
If you could think of any person who hurt you in the past one week, after class please collect a stone from the riverside, paste a paper with the name of that person on the stone and place the stone in the bag. The bigger the hurt, the bigger should be your stone. If it is a small hurt, then it should be a small stone. I want you all to carry the bag with the stones to the class everyday'.
The students found the game was very interesting They rushed to riverside to search for the stones after class
The next morning, The children carried their bags with the stones to school and were happily chatting away.
This went on the first day, second day and on the third day it was over.
Some were carrying bigger and bigger bags that became a burden
At last, Some children started to complain, 'Teacher, very tiring' and the teacher was laughing without saying a word There was one student shouted loudly,' Yeah, it is very tiring to carry the stones to class everyday'
The teacher finally smiled at the child and said: 'You should let go all the stones that carry other people's mistakes'
The children were surprised
The teacher continued and said: 'Learn to forgive people's mistake,
Do not keep them as treasures in your heart and carry them on the shoulder, over time , none of us will be able to stand the weight of the burden anymore.'
This week, the children had learn a very precious lesson in life The more and bigger stones are in the bag, the more hatred the heart will harbour and the hatred will become deeper and deeper. The burden will become heavier and heavier..
If you had written my name on your stones You should know what to do now!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
proverbs of the day:
'Forgiving people's mistakes is a glory to us' Learn to 'let go', it will free us..
Do not be stingy to share; perhaps there are people who need it.
Love is easy but living and getting together is difficult
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